The “Milkshake Murder” refers to the 2003 murder of Robert Peter Kissel, an American investment banker, by his wife Nancy Ann Kissel in their luxury apartment in Hong Kong. The case caught international attention due to its sensational elements: a drugged milkshake, a fatal beating, and the burial of the body in a carpet.
Background: The Ill-Fated Kissel Marriage
A Picture-Perfect Family
The Kissels seemingly had it all — a loving relationship, beautiful children, and high-profile careers. Robert was an investment banker, and Nancy was a stay-at-home mom involved in community work. But beneath the surface lurked problems, including accusations of spousal abuse and infidelity.
Unraveling Ties
The marriage had soured over time, with both sides alleging abuse. In emails discovered later, Robert even confided in a friend, saying, “I am going through a difficult time in my marriage. Nancy is not well. I can only hope she comes around.”
Timeline of Events Leading to Murder
November 2, 2003: The Infamous Milkshake
On this fateful day, Nancy Kissel served her husband a strawberry milkshake laced with sedatives. According to testimony, she had her 6-year-old daughter hand the drugged milkshake to Robert. Once incapacitated, Nancy beat Robert to death with a metal ornament.
November 6, 2003: Discovery of the Body
Four days later, after an ongoing search by colleagues and family members, Robert’s body was found rolled up in a carpet in their storage room.
November 7, 2003: Nancy Arrested
Within 24 hours of the gruesome discovery, Nancy was arrested and charged with murder. As reported by the New York Times, she appeared “dazed but composed” during her arrest.
The Trials and Sentences
2005: First Conviction
Nancy was found guilty of murder and sentenced to life in prison. A key moment in the trial was her confession that she had killed her husband but had done so to protect herself and her children from his abusive behavior.
2010: Retrial and Second Conviction
After her original conviction was overturned on appeal, a second trial was held. The Hong Kong Court upheld her life sentence, stating there was “overwhelming evidence” against her, as reported by CNN.
Social and Cultural Impact
Gender and Domestic Violence
The case brought attention to issues of domestic violence and gender roles. Nancy claimed she was a victim of abuse, which many argued had not been adequately considered during the trial.
Media Frenzy
The case spawned multiple documentaries and books. “The Milkshake Murder,” a documentary by ABC News, delved into the complex psychology behind the murder, quoting experts who discussed the “battle of genders” evident in the trial.